Self Love

And no, I'm not talking about the "when a teenage boy locks his door" type of self love!

C'est le mois de l'amour. Valentine's day or how I would see it "Single's Awareness" Day. Now all laughs aside, on my quest for "paradise" I've learned/learning the fine art of self love. Dating, Relationships, Crushes have all come and gone in the past year, it has brought me a lot of doubt, worry, self pity and for what? I'm trying to find this "one" who ever he may be and I never realized for once I should start looking for myself. Cliche as it may be "finding" ones' self, I believe it starts with a little self love. I mean heck if I don't love myself who will?

With self love comes shifting my desires. As time goes on I'm watching friends get engaged, get married, having babies, and all those are my desires in life but I've forgotten to place key words in that sentence. "Those are all my desires, all in due time" All in due time folks! Is it that simple? I believe so. For me I'm learning to stop longing for what I don't have and start loving what I got, and what I got is me! I think I'm pretty awesome and in due time someone else will as well!

Paradise seeking, or bust.
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